45 things a girl wants but wont ask for (edited)
(i edited some part)
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends
together.
KEEP READING
11. go out with her friends
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more,
deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her
more
than you, deny it. fight back and hug
her tight so she can’t get to her
friends. it makes her feel loved.
Ar e you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you
whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the
waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about
her.
One last thing you need to do to show
her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her
car- it makes her feel protected, plus
it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything -
only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something
wrong, ask her- if she denies something
being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT
TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you
know!!!!*
WE MIGHT NOT SHOW IT,
26-don’t lie to HER.*
27-DON’T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the
morning and tell her have a good day at
work {or school}, and how much you
MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs
you, & even when she doesn’t need you,
just be there so she’ll know that she
can ALWAYS count on you.*
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER
BECAUSE, IT’S IMPORTANT
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so
she can hold YOU too.
32. tell her youre jealous when you are.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will
give
her the hint that you want to kiss
her).*
34 . While in the movies, put your arm
around her and then she will
automatically put her head on your
shoulder, then lean in and tilt her
chin
up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even
jokingly or act like you’re mad. If
shes
upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE
WITH HER NEXT
36. When people DISS her, stand up for
her.*
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell
her
you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put
her
head on your chest so she can listen to
the steady beat of your heart, Link
your
fingers together while you whisper to
her as she rests her eyes and listens
to
you .
39. When walking next to each other
grab
her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your
arms as long as possible*
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED
41. drive her home
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe
away her tears.*
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love
her.*
45. spend time with her family. play with the kids, talk to her dad and mom.
the meantime girl
What is a meantime girl?
She’s the one you call when you’re bored because she makes you laugh. She’s the one you talk to when you’re feeling down because she’s willing to lend an ear and be a friend. She’s not the one you call when you need a date to your company’s Christmas party, or to go dancing with on a Saturday night. She’s the one you spend time with between girlfriends, before you find “The One.”
You know, she’s the one who you keep around in the meantime.
She’s not one of the guys, not a tomboy, but you don’t look at her as a “real” woman, either. She’s not bitch enough, moody enough, or sexy enough to be seen in that light. She’s too laid-back, too easily amused by the same things your male buddies are amused by. She’s too understanding, too comfortable - she doesn’t make you feel nervous or excited the way a “real” woman does.
But she’s cool, and nice, and funny, and attractive enough that when you’re lonely or horny and need intimate female companionship, she’ll do just fine. You don’t have to wine and dine her because she knows the real you already, and you don’t have any facades to keep up, no pretenses to preserve.
You’re not trying to get anything of substance out of her. She’s not easy, but you know that she cares about you and is attracted to you, and that she’ll give you the intimacy you need. And you know you don’t have to explain yourself or the situation, that she’ll be able to cope with the fact that this isn’t the beginning of a relationship nor that there’s any possibility that you have any real romantic feelings for her. It won’t bother her that you’ll get up in the morning, put on your pants, say goodbye, and go on a date with the woman you’ve been mooning over for weeks who finally agreed to go out with you. She’ll settle for a goodbye hug and a promise to call her and tell her how the date went. She’s just so cool . . . why can’t all women be like that?!
But deep down, if you really think about it (which you probably don’t because to you, the situation between the two of you isn’t important enough to merit any real thought), you know that it’s really not fair. You know that although she would never say it, it hurts her to know that despite all her good points and all the fun you two have, you don’t think she’s good enough to spend any real time with.
Sure, it’s mostly her fault, because she doesn’t have to give in to your needs - she could play the hard-to-get bitch like the rest of them do, if she really wanted to. But you and she both know that she probably couldn’t pull it off. Maybe she’s too short, or a little overweight, or has a big birthmark on her forehead, or works at a factory. Whatever the reason, somehow life has given her a lot of really great qualities but has left out the ones that men want (or think they want) in a woman.
So she remains forever the funny friend, the steadfast companion, the secret lover, and you go on searching for your goddess who will somehow be everything you ever wanted in a woman.
She doesn’t captivate you with her beauty, or open doors with her smile. Mainly she blends in with the crowd. She’s safe. She doesn’t want to be the center of attention and turn the heads of everyone in the room. But she wants to turn someone’s head. She wants to be special to someone, too.
We all do.
She has feelings. She has a heart. In fact, she probably has a bigger and better heart than any woman you’ve ever known because she’s had a front-row seat to The Mess That Is Your Life, and she likes you anyway.
She obviously sees something worthwhile and redeeming in you because although you’ve given her nothing, absolutely no reason to still be around, she is.
Anyway, yeah. I’m a Meantime Girl. Been one for him. For how long, I can’t remember.
I don’t know the reason, really, and at this point I don’t even care. I just want to let every guy know who’s ever had the good fortune to have a Meantime Girl that we may be a lot of fun, but we cry, too. A lot.
And we won’t be around forever.
- ANONYMOUS
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simple people are not hard to please.. speech (miting de avanse)
My dear nursing students I am greatly venerated to be with you today, the feeling of honor is reflected by the fact that we have become an indispensable part of the institution, St. Luke’s College of Nursing with that I would like to greet you a very pleasant day.
About three weeks ago, a friend gave a name to me and called me “Si Jenzel Complainant”. Well, I told her with all sincerity “yeah I am. ‘coz I can see floss to things that people won’t care about.” To others it may sound a bit sarcastic but to my friend it is the normal Jenzel. For she perfectly knew that it is what I am.
I’ve been a student here at Trinity University of Asia for the last three years and all I did was sit in a four cornered room listen to my professors, talk with my friends, observe people and events, criticize their flosses and eventually complain. Don’t get me wrong people I just state facts that I have observed and it unfortunately it would sound as a complaint. I complain a lot. It is what I love to do maybe because I want some things to happen and I want to see changes. Then when I was in my third year an event made me ponder on these questions “What will happen to my complaints if no one would hear about it? If nobody would work on it?” Then it came to me that complaints would be just complaints if no one would knew it. Plans would just be thoughts if it can’t be put into process. I would just be an appellant student if I wouldn’t do anything.
I did not grow just to be a passive person and practicing “come what may”. I was brought up to believe that destiny does not mean letting things fall into places rather making things happen. For that reason I decided to join organizations and activities to make my complaints be things of existence. However, things still can be brought into higher level. I said to myself “Why not run as an SNA officer since I don’t want to be just an plaintiff student? Why not step up and make a difference? Make a mark?”
Within my stay in the nursing family I have encountered different kinds of dilemmas; brain-twisting academics, sleep inducing professors not to forget those who can trigger a heart attack to students, fickle minded peers, anti-social schedules, and other stuff which I won’t itemize anymore. With all that I did not do anything about it. I did not even try to work on it. Mainly because I was apprehensive to approach people who can help me and who are involved in them. I know I share those dilemmas with other students; we are having hard time to communicate with the higher office. Yes, we have the SNA officers back then to guide and help us but I never had the guts to come near them simply because I felt that they are way untouchable. Well, sorry to my friends who were officers but that’s how I felt.
Years of tough communication between the office and students should be changed. Years of vague understanding on going between us should be made lucid. And how to make this happen?
We have the SNA Gazette but what do we find inside it? First-class reputation of the college, blissful events that we have celebrated, life of significant people, literatures etc. but we cannot come across a page where we can find “Why does the 4th floor restroom look like a public comfort room?” “Why does Mr. X give false schedules on exams?” “Why can’t we wear flops during wash days?” Those phrases are nowhere to be found in the Gazette, to think that the Gazette is a paper of the students and not for promotion. A simple way of communication was not being utilized to its fullest. And I know someone could appeal on that. Why not give at least two pages of the paper for the students’ shout-outs? Why not allow them to cry what they feel? What students need, what we need is a bridge to connect us to the administration and to other fellow students. It is one thing I wanted to emphasize on. It is what I want to enhance. A thing I want to improve. Communication.
Changing a weak communication to a strong one is the first thing I am seeking for. Without it, the family that we have would not be a family but a group of people staying in one college who merely understand each other.
Looking back it is one of my complaints –the weak link between our SNA family. And yes I have plans to strengthen it, the said SNA Gazette, have an open communication of the officers, update the website, and so on. There are tons of ways to fortify the family. The only missing thing is the action to be done.
Ladies and gentlemen I am not standing here to compare myself to anybody rather to present what I have in me. I am not here to say that I am against the administration rather to say that I can do something to appeal to them. Neither I am here to prove I am an ally of the students instead to tell them that I am one of them and can represent them. I am here to be one of the bricks to build the bridge between the administration and my fellow students. I believe in what Helen Keller has said, “I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; I will not refuse to do something I can do.” I am Jenzel Añonuevo of 4nu01, running for SNA president. Thank you and have a good day.
sadly the whole speech was not delivered for some inevitable reasons…
Uncategorized | Comment (0)always be my baby…
we were as one babe
for a moment in time
and it seemed everlasting
that you would always be mine
now you want to be free
so I’m letting you fly
cause i know in my heart babe
our love will never die,no!
you’ll always be a part of me
i’m a part of you indefinitely
boy don’t you know you can’t escape me
ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby
and we’ll linger on
time can’t erase a feeling this strong
no way you’re never gonna shake me
ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby
i ain’t gonna cry no
and i won’t beg you to stay
if you’re determined to leave boy
i will not stand in your way
but inevitably you’ll be back again
cause ya know in your heart babe
our love will never end no
you’ll always be a part of me
i’m part of you indefinitely
boy don’t you know you can’t escape me
ooh darling cause you’ll always be my baby
and we’ll linger on
time can’t erase a feeling this strong
no way you’re never gonna shake me
ooh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby
i know that you’ll be back boy
when your days and your nights get a little bit colder ooohhh
i know that,you’ll be right back, baby
oh, baby believe me it’s only a matter of time
of time
you’ll always be a part of me i’m part of you indefinitely
boy don’t you know you can’t escape me
ooh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby
and we’ll linger on (and we will linger on)
time cant erase a feeling this strong
no way you’re never gonna shake me
ooh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby
you’ll always be a part of me
i’m part of you indefinitely
boy don’t you know you can’t escape me
ooh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby
and we’ll linger on (you and I will always be)
time cant erase a feeling this strong
no way you’re never gonna shake me (you & I)
ooh darlin cause you’ll always be my baby (you & I)
you and i will always be
no way your never gonna shake me
no way your never gonna shake me
you and i will always be
….. you
i did it.. unconsciously..
One night when my friend and I are talking, he gave a comment about my past blog particularly on this line One can hold, get hurt, and still hold and hope and his comment was “That’s why humans are so fragile. They tend to look for things that they know will only lead to their own sufferings”
Right then it made me think that I belong to that group of people, unconsciously looking for things that would eventually hurt me.
I’ve been taking along safe road on my life in the past three years and frankly after that I felt empty for it was plain safe. Then I realized that it is not how safe my steps were or how much thinking I’ve been doing in those three years but it is the things that I acceded to pass by. Those were the things that gave me regrets and more thinking, the things that might have been good and strong to this point. But then again they were the things that are now gone. Vanished.
Those made me do something that fell on the said words of my friend. I tend to look for something that would make the difference, however; insentience I was looking for something that will bring burden unto me. In fact, I found something recently that did hurt me (it was the root of my 2 previous blogs). I did know that it would hurt me but still I chose the perilous, intricate and vague road.
People might think that how imprudent am I to do such but little did they know that that thing made a big impact onto me. Yes, I was hurt but I did enjoy the experience beforehand. No. I love the experience. Cherish and keep it with me. Why? Cause I don’t have “what ifs” in my mind. I did what I wanted. Although that doesn’t mean that what I wanted is the right one but I least I had experienced it and learned from it. And most importantly I was the one who chose. It was MY decision. No one should be blamed for it.
However, I cannot speak for everyone and I do so believe that one has its own perspective to the words of my friend. I know some still can’t comprehend with me. Maybe they haven’t experienced it yet… maybe they have their own standpoint… or maybe they are just in refutation that what they had had is something that they have regret and/or something that gave them the “what ifs”.
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my summer of sand and rocks
My summer was a mix of san and rocks… sand for it’s fine as those sand,, rocks for its rough and hard (to say that its difficult)… why? It’s because of the so-called love.
Yes. I have loved and I can’t say that I’m not anymore… I still do… I just don’t know where and how it will end or if it will end.
End? Why do I want it to end?
Honestly, I don’t want it to end. It just happened that I have to let go of something that I really don’t want to lose.
Let go?
Let go. “What’s the point of holding on if the other one is not holding back?” I asked myself… then my sister said “its useless”. She answered me as simple as ABC. That’s why one has to let go.
Holding back?
How can you say that someone is holding? Is it the words they say? Or is it the actions they do? One can say that s/he loves you but still manage not to show it. One can say the three magic words but still do things that might hurt you. One can do things to you that can mean affection though it has no meaning at all rather you’re just giving meaning into them. It will only be better if words and actions would come together. However, it wouldn’t be simple for it’s a risk that one should take. No one can be sure that if once you start to hold on, it will be reciprocated.
Reciprocated?
Does holding should be reciprocated? Can one hold without waiting for something? Nothing’s fair in this world. You cannot always get the things you gave. That’s reality. But one thing’s for sure. One can hold, get hurt, and still hold and hope. Time and the person itself only can tell when and how to let go or if that person will let go.
Time and person.
Yes. I perfectly know that I need to let go. You gave me enough reasons. But I know now is not the time ‘coz I, myself, doesn’t want to. I know you already did let go of me. But now what I need is the right time and the right reason for me to do it.
Yes I still love you and I’m still holding on. But nothing could work if you’re already holding into something else. I was hurt but I won’t blame you for that rather I would like to thank you for giving me that summer of sand and rocks.
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my babz,,
I don’t know how to start this… it happened so fast…
Been with you in a very short time, then I never thought that that would come to this… I had fun in the last few days spending time with you, really I did. I wished and still wishing it wouldn’t end… remember I told you this “although I know you would soon live… but still… I’m risking myself here… if you only knew how hard it is for me to be in this situation.” All of that are true… and I’m still holding onto that. Yah, maybe I am that stupid and all. But I know that I can’t rush myself to end everything right now. It would be much harder if I do that especially I know that you’re still around. I’m thinking that I could just make the most while you’re still here. And then let God decide what to do about us.
I miss the old you. Joke around even though it’s the corniest joke ever! Laugh whenever I made simple mistake. Mimic the way I talk. You hold my hands in a way I feel you care and that you don’t want to let go of me. And other things that I myself don’t want to let go just yet…
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big night?? (SNA xmas party)
it was a big night indeed.. (based on the prizes given) aww… too bad i didn’t get any.. tsktsk..
we went to the place by 10pm.. ehem.. i still i have fever lastnyt.. but still i tried to enjoy the crowd and the event of course.. (the party was so-so…)
what made my night??? POLAR BEAR!!! what the hell am i talking about?! a polar bear at metro bar?! yes indeed,, though technically not under the genus ursus… "polar bear" is a human being that looks like a real polar bear.. (i was not the who gave the alias, it was my friend)… hehehe..
hhmmm… yah,, i am guilty of going to the party just to see few important people and not for the event itself.. man, i didn’t even get the chance to eat.. so as a result i am still sick.. tsktsk..
anyway,, thanx for the SNA family to organize such event.. nursing students deserve a break…
Uncategorized | Comment (0)to my dearest friend…
i sat outside in this 4th of december
i look at the moon as i sober
i can see an icon of beauty
but yet sadness is all i can feel within me
i reminisce as the wind blew the chimes
we stared at the moon at the same time
it was just last month i perfectly remember
i felt your presence although we’re not physically together
where are you now? i suddenly ask myself
you’re gone and went somewhere
to a place i don’t know ‘coz you didn’t even tell
oh yes why bother i am just Jenzel
stupid me to appreciate all those things
to what happened, what you said & what you did
i realize to you it has no meaning
i should have not expected, ‘coz you left me hanging
i thought i am special
but then i am just an alibi
you know i see you as a true friend
one of the best that i have ever met
all i want to say is i’m in pain as everyone can see
but still i miss your nice personality
damn! you’re the only person who hurt me like this way
i just hope all this feeling will soon fade away
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